How do I accustom my body to sex if my boyfriend is always away?
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I've only been with one guy, my husband. We've been dating since we were teens and we've never broken up or had a fight we couldn't solve. We've been very happily married for a year and a half now, but the problem is that he's in the military and I'm still going to college.

I get to see him for maybe one weekend a month, if I'm lucky. And here's where the problem starts: He's a very nicely endowed man and has great stamina. I can't remember the last time it took us less than half an hour. It usually ranges to 45 to 60 minutes.


The problem is that I'm a very tight girl myself. Because I'm away for so long, my body becomes unaccustomed to the process, and it's difficult and painful for me to start up again. Also, I have trouble with friction, since even if I use a lubricant, it doesn't last very long. While it takes him a long time to achieve climax, I am very easy, averaging 3 to 4 O's per encounter (not including foreplay, which is extensive for us). Everywhere I look for advice tries to tell you how to get a tighter fit, more O's for the girl, and a longer experience for the guy. I need the exact opposite! (well, I don't really mind all those O's of course). I don't know where else to turn.

ImageUnless he’s afraid that he’s going to lose his erection if he stops for a moment to apply some more lubricant to his penis, such breaks in the action would be my advice to you. I can understand that as he gets closer to orgasm, he might not be able to stop, but if it takes him as long as you say, I don’t really see it being a problem to stop one or two times earlier to add some lubrication as it only takes a moment if you keep it right beside you.

Many men are afraid that they’ll lose their erection, but even if they do or it softens a bit, it usually comes right back. Another suggestion might be to give him more foreplay so that maybe if he was more excited before beginning intercourse, it wouldn’t take him quite so long to achieve his orgasm.


 
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