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Will masturbation ruin us? |
 It's very important to my boyfriend and me that you answer this question so please respond. We don't want to have premarital sex, BUT it’s so hard.
We don't want to have premarital sex,BUT it’s so hard. That's why we masturbate while talking on the phone together. However, we have heard stories that if you are used to masturbating frequently, you won't be as sexually satisfied during intercourse as you would have if not used to masturbation, or you wouldn't come until you masturbate on your own. Since we have been doing this for over a year now, we are really concerned. What's your say on that matter?
 My say is to stop worrying. Some people do get so used to masturbating in a certain way that it can affect the way they have sex, but that’s not usually the case, and that usually happens when someone masturbates more than once a day, and I don’t think that you’re doing that. You both need the sexual release, and so this is preventing you from breaking your vows of celibacy, so my advice is not to worry about this potential, but unlikely side effect.
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