They are flocking to the Internet in droves for not only nudity, but pornographic exhibition. Don't our young women know that to do so brands them as whores to the male concept of thinking? Most of these young women are either cute, pretty or absolutely gorgeous! They could have practically any man they wanted, someone to love them for a lifetime  and desire providing for them. Why would our young women turn down the advantages of being loved, cherished and provided for to parade themselves on the Internet?

I've been happily married to the same wonderful woman for over 44 years now!  We've had some horribly tough times in our marriage, but because we were determined to make the best marriage possible, we prevailed. Our life has been tough, but because of our determination to make it work and our undying love for eachother, our marriage has been almost a story-book marriage. Our marriage is based on the Biblical concept that your love for your mate must be greater than your love for yourself. Are our young men so self-centered and selfish today that our young women cannot find someone with that desires to wed them? These young women don't seem to realize that one day they will wake up and their beauty will be gone. If they are recognized at that age as one who whored themselves out to the Internet, how are they ever going to find a loving husband who will marry and love them the way they want to be loved?

I’m old fashioned and a square and I couldn’t agree with you more. But that said, I can also understand what’s going on. I suppose in a nutshell what has happened is that once people could have sex without the risk of pregnancy, sex became detached from love and romance. In other words, there is great pleasure that comes from sex, and once you could “safely” have sex without being married, people started having sex for just that: pleasure. And, of course, society changed in so many other ways, especially with women having gained the freedom to have a career and support themselves, etc. And once people can freely have sex outside the bounds of marriage, some people keep pushing the envelope thinking that the more daring they are, the better the sex will be. And maybe in the short run that may be true, but I don’t believe it is in the long run. And while I congratulate you for staying married for 44 years, the fact is that in the U.S., half of all marriages end in divorce, so young people don’t entirely believe that if they get married, it will be to their only partner. And so the boundaries get pushed further and further out and you and I sit back in amazement at what young people are doing, and they just sort of take it for granted.

If history is any judge, this has happened before, and once the pendulum has swung all the way one way, it usually starts swinging back the other. The best place is the middle ground, but usually societies go from one extreme to the other, which is really sad but maybe inevitable. I will say this, when it comes to sex, there is a limit. At some point you’ll have done everything and where do you go from there? I don’t think that is true with love. I think that love can continue to grow for as long as a couple remain together, so ultimately love is lot more rewarding than sex. So while I don’t want to see us go back to being a repressed society, I would feel better if we could be a little more conservative with regards to sex and that young people would concentrate more on falling in love, and working on that love, than on just grabbing every thrill they can from sex while they’re young, and then finding themselves without love later on.