I have two things to say to you. The first is that you don’t have to hop from one girl to the next to have sex. If you’re in a relationship, you’d still be having sex, but with only one person. In addition to sex, you’d also have a romantic relationship, companionship, a close friend, someone to share your life with, all while having sex. You’d also lower your chances of catching a sexually transmitted disease or of causing an unintended pregnancy.

My other point is that you’re spouting nonsense when you say that you can’t stop. I understand that when someone is hooked on certain drugs they develop a physical dependency and it is very hard to stop, but that’s not true with sex. You can develop the control you need, but you have to really want to. You might need some psychological help, but that’s available. The fact that you wrote to me asking for help shows that you understand that your lifestyle is not a good one, so you just have to take control over your life and change your ways. I’m not saying it’s necessarily going to be easy but the rewards will make the effort you put into it worthwhile.