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How do I undo a vaginal grip? |
 My husband became extremely aroused when I put the vaginal grip on him.
I have been doing this for many years. I can, as most women probably can, put a grip on him with my vaginal muscles. The only problem is that since I have been doing this, I cannot orgasm. The "grip" takes over, and I cannot relax my vaginal muscles enough to orgasm. How can I "undo the grip"?! I have tried, without success.
 What you’re saying makes a lot of sense because most women need to concentrate on the sensations in order to have an orgasm, and if at least part of your brain is devoted to gripping your vaginal muscles, then that could easily be enough to prevent you from having an orgasm. What I would suggest is to try some variety. Sometimes you grip his penis with your vagina in order to maximize his pleasure, and he can then give you an orgasm afterwards or before with his fingers or tongue, and other times you don’t do any gripping activity so that you can have an orgasm during intercourse. There might be an adjustment period, but I think that could work. Try it and let me know what happens.
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