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How do I get over this man? |
 I was with a man for seven years and very much in love with him.
I feel he loved me also. We had a lot of problems in our relationship, and now have been apart for a few years. I still love him and I feel a part of him still loves me. How can he turn his love off and on like a light switch? I know there is no hope, but I want my heart to move on. I know he thinks of me also, but why does he act as if I don’t exist? It hurts me very much, but in the long run, I know it is the best, but how can I convince my heart?
 Every time you start to think about this man, stop yourself. I suggest that you start fantasizing about having a torrid affair with some movie star who is totally unavailable. In other words, Mr. X pops in your brain, right away start thinking about, say, Brad Pitt. If you allow yourself to think romantically about this man, he’s not going to go out of your heart. You need to free yourself of these feelings so that you can find someone new, but you won’t be able to do that if you insist on keeping that flame alive.
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