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How do I coax my partner into performing more fellatio? |
 Regarding fellatio: I would really like to understand why most women in general do not respond positively to coaxing and direction from the recipient when the desire to receive fellatio is indicated by the recipient.
I have been fortunate to have a partner years ago who voraciously engaged me when the opportunity presented itself to her or when she simply chose the time and place. As you might expect I thought I'd achieved Nirvana. Sadly, that is many years hence as I have been married to another wonderful woman for 28 years. Also, sadly, I have only received 3 spontaneously administered fellatio experiences from this wonderful woman. I crave the experience and have not discovered (or perhaps understood or perceived the "key") to this heavenly event. How might I create the environment for the regular occurrence for future opportunities and thereby perhaps be on the receiving end far more frequently? Thank you for your advisement on this matter.
 If you haven’t figured this out after 28 years, there’s probably not much I could advise you. I will say that if you take the formal attitude with her that you do in writing, that might not be the best one. If you’re not spontaneous with her, if you never grab her and kiss her, or agree to make love in the morning and be late for work, in other words if you’re very rigid in your relationship, then that might be a factor. I’m not saying that you should loosen up merely as a quid pro quo, but only that if perhaps you do act more spontaneous in many ways in your life, that perhaps that would have a positive effect on your wife with regard to fellatio.
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