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Why won't my partner allow me to please her? |
 My girlfriend just recently broke up with me. She said one of the reasons being was that I was unable to come all the time.
We were only going out for two months. I lost my virginity to her on our first date, and out of those two months I only came a couple of times. She also put me down about the size of my penis. She told me it was the smallest she has ever seen. I feel depressed right now because of how things went between us and I am still wondering why I couldn't finish in the bedroom. What do you suppose is the problem? Do many guys have this problem in the bedroom? Please help.
 Perhaps not many, but it is a problem encountered by men, and it’s psychological in nature. And judging from your description, I’m not surprised that you would encounter a psychological problem when having sex with her. She seems to be quite a nasty person and being in bed with someone like that is certainly not going to be all that pleasant an experience, psychologically if not physically.
Because this is a psychological issue, if you go into the next relationship with the same worries, then those worries can cause you to have the problem again. So my advice is to find a girlfriend who is sweeter and more accepting, and then you’ll have an easier time overcoming this issue because you won’t be quite so nervous.
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