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Why do I always lose my erection? |
 I am able to keep an erection with this person until we get undressed and get into bed.
This has not happened with anyone else. Example: On the way home from a concert we were messing with each other in the car and she was down on me for most of the ride home. I had an erection, but as soon as we unclothed and got into it in bed, I lost it, but was still excited and then had premature ejaculation. I have been with this woman for almost 3 months and this has happened with her quite often, but I have been with others and it did not happen at all. The only other person that this occurred with on occasion was my second wife, but because this woman is so into having 3/4/5 orgasms on the first round, I'm not sure if it is intimidation as we both love sex. Need help as I enjoy her immensely.
 I think you’ve answered your own question. Her needs are making you feel pressured. When a man starts to worry whether or not he will be able to perform, those worries can prevent him from performing the way he would like. And the more he worries, the harder it can become to overcome this performance anxiety. What might be helpful to you is to satisfy her in other ways, such as with your fingers, orally or with a vibrator. Once you know that she has had the orgasms she desires, you might find it easier to maintain your erection and have intercourse so that you can have an orgasm. Then after a while, when you’ve regained your confidence, you’ll be able to perform the way you have with other women.
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