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How do I get my boyfriend to make love to me? |
 My boyfriend and I have been dating for seven months, but we have known each other for over 20 years.
We have both recently been divorced. He had a bad marriage. His wife cheated on him several times and it is affecting our relationship because he cannot make love to me. He says it is a mental thing and he feels he failed in that area in his 1ast marriage. He does not want that to happen to us. I tried to reassure him that it will not happen, that I am totally in love with him and we can get through it together. What can I do to help him get through this? He says he does not like being like this. PLEASE HELP!!!
 I’m not sure what you mean by “he cannot make love to me.” Does that mean he can’t get an erection, or he won’t even try… after seven months. You say his wife cheated on him, but do you know why? Maybe he couldn’t make love to her either. And if that’s so, why couldn’t he? In other words, maybe he has a bigger problem. So what you two must do is go to see a sex therapist. You need a professional to get to the bottom of this. Only when you find out what is going on can you decide the next step, so don’t delay but make an appointment as soon as possible.
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