How can I trust my cheating boyfriend again?
ImageHELP! My boyfriend, who in the past had problems with drugs and alcohol, was a HUGE ladies man. He would hook up with women from bars and clubs. He has been sober and drug free for 4 years now. But he still hooked up with women; he is a HUGE fan of strippers. He stated that in the past, he would charm these women, have sex with them and then not talk to them again. So, when he met me he said it was different. He wanted to try an honest relationship. He and I talk every day and night. We do this because we are having a long distance relationship until he moves out here, which will be in September. He and I met last September. He's very charming. We started dating in January and I thought things were ok, but I recently found out he cheated on me. He said it was in the beginning of our relationship and it meant nothing. He said he didn't want to tell me because he didn't want to lose me and it would never happen again. He says he loves me and had to go through all that to make sure he could be in a relationship with ONE person. I care about him and I want to believe in him again. I know that this wasn't a personal attack against me, but I can't help but take it that way. He knew I was cheated on in the past and what it did to me. Is it true that men view sex differently than women do? Can they really be in love with one person, want a future with that person and cheat?


ImageWhile it may be true that men view sex differently, that doesnt mean that you have to put up with it. However when this happened you werent living together and you werent having sex regularly so I can understand that youd be willing to forgive him. The big question, in my mind, is: will he really be able to change his ways once you are living together. I would think the bigger problem is not the one time he cheated a few months ago, but whether hell behave in the future. I suppose since the relationship is so far along and hes moving to be with you, you have to give him the benefit of the doubt, and I wish you the best of luck. But to be honest with you, I do see an element of risk in this relationship.

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