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Do I Need To Move Differently To Please Him More? |
My man likes it when I'm on top during sex because he gets tired of holding himself up during the missionary position.
This is good for me because that's how I reach orgasm best, but I feel bad because it seems like he doesn't like the way it feels when I'm on top as much as I do. He's Hispanic and I'm White, so the thought crossed my mind that maybe he's used to the way Latin women move. What can I do when I'm on top to make it more pleasurable for him?
You know that he likes it better when you’re on top, so why are you guessing that there’s something about it he doesn’t like? Why not just ask him? A very important part of good sex is good communications. You’re in a sexual relationship so don’t be shy about asking him what he likes and doesn’t like. Don’t start the discussion while you’re having sex but instead pick a quiet moment and talk about your likes and dislikes. A discussion doesn’t mean you have to make any changes if you don’t want to, but hopefully by broadening your knowledge of how you each feel you will find areas where you can make some adjustments to improve your sex life.
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