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He Broke My Heart and I Can't Masturbate Without Crying |
My boyfriend and I had a passionate and healthy sex life.
We both believed we were in love with one another. We were soul mates. However, he recently broke my heart, and we are no longer together. Although my libido had seemingly disappeared at first, I tried masturbating the other day but suddenly started sobbing in the middle of it. Why did this happen, and how can I heal the emotional wounds he inflicted so I can enjoy sex again?
It takes time to get over a break up. While you were masturbating, you obviously thought back to the times you had sex with your boyfriend and those memories pushed aside any sense of sexual arousal you were feeling and so you started to cry. As time goes by, it will become easier to push aside those memories. And at some point soon, you’ll be ready to start looking for a new man. Once you find him, the memories of your past lover will start to fade even more quickly. So you can be sure that you will enjoy sex, and love, again, but also know that it will take some time to heal.
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