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My Lack of Self-Esteem is Ruining My Marriage |
 I am 21 and married to a great man.
The problem I am having is that I do not like the way I look and although I know he thinks I am attractive, I am too uncomfortable being on top in any way. My husband is getting bored with sex as well as annoyed and I don't blame him. I haven't been with many men. And to be completely honest, that’s why the other man I was with left me. My insecurities are to strong but I want to make my husband happy. Any ideas?
 Of course seeing a psychologist to treat your issues of self-esteem would be the best solution, but if that’s not an option, then let me offer two other ideas. The first is to try to “cover” yourself with different lighting. Use candles or put a low-wattage bulb in one lamp in your bedroom so that you can be a bit more experimental without feeling so exposed. I also suggest sharing a bubble bath with your husband. The bubbles will give you some coverage while the experience will give him some variety.
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