He told me about a month after we started dating that he hasn't had an orgasm in over 5 years. He is able to come during sex, but gets extremely little to no pleasure from it. He thinks it is because he masturbated too much when he was younger. He does have a sex drive, but not much of one. Definitely not your typical 22 year olds sex drive, anyway. I have suggested that he go to a doctor to find out if there is something wrong with his hormones or something, but he doesn't believe in doctors. What can I do to please him?

I’m assuming when you say that “he is able to come” that you mean he ejaculates normally, which means his problem is not physical but rather psychological. So rather than needing to see a doctor, he needs to go to a sex therapist. And what I suggest you do is make an appointment for the two of you to go. He may balk, and then you’ll end up going by yourself. At least you’ll get some information from this visit. But maybe if you’ve done all the legwork to set up an appointment you’ll be able to drag him there, especially since the result, the pleasure of orgasm, is certainly worth it.