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My Husband Falls Asleep When I Perform Fellatio... Is It Me? |
 I have a question: every time I go to give my husband a blow job, he falls asleep!
I have never had this problem before with previous relationships. I asked him if it was cause he didn’t find me attractive sexually and his response was that it feels so good that he is relaxed and that’s why he falls asleep. Can you please tell me what it is?
 I think his explanation is probably correct, though I might add he needs to get more sleep. He is probably tired when you do this, and while he may be sexually aroused, because I’m assuming he has an erection, he does find it very relaxing, and so his tiredness overcomes his state of arousal, and he falls asleep. Here’s one suggestion; try giving him oral sex in the morning. If he falls asleep then too, I would send him to see a doctor. I have a friend who just was tested and he has sleep apnea. He actually wakes up once a minute during the night. He may not be fully awake, but it keeps him from getting the needed REM, or deep sleep that he needs. So if your husband has some problem that is keeping him from getting a good night’s rest, then it should be looked into.
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