I'm a virgin, but been wanting sex really bad. I was thinking about a dildo. I need to know if you can use a dildo while still being a virgin? Is it safe? is it healthy? I need to know ASAP, because it is important to know at this time.

While the use of a dildo, which is a plastic or rubber penis-shaped object, is perfectly safe, and if you keep it clean, should also pose no health problems, unless it is a very small one, you probably won’t be able to insert it into your vagina without tearing your hymen, assuming it is still intact. Many women these days break their hymen in other ways, for example during sports or bicycle riding, so it is no longer an important marker with regards to proving your virginity. But if it is stil intact, and you want to keep it that way, then you would not want to insert a dildo into your vagina. On the other hand, if you just use the dildo to stimulate our clitoris, which is within the vaginal lips but not in the vagina itself, then you wouldn’t risk tearing your hymen.