After this time being married for so long he tells me he is not feeling the same way about me anymore. Come to find out that he was seeing a younger women them me. The last time we made love while he was coming he called out my name and after it happen he leaves a message on my answering machine saying that it didn't mean anything to him what happen the night before because he was upset because I let the other women know he had slept with me that night. My question is if it didn't mean anything to him why did he call out my name and not hers? Why is he treating as a slut when I am his wife?

I can’t answer your question and you know what, you shouldn’t be worried about which name he called out. It seems to me that this marriage is over and that you need to get on with your life, without him. From what I can gather, you don’t live together, so why are you still pretending that you’re his wife? You may be legally speaking, but he’s not treating you like a wife, so it’s time you changed your status with him. So stop having sex with him when he comes over, and separate yourself from this man, both emotionally and legally.