I am 22 years old and have been with my boyfriend for 5 years. We usually only have sex a couple of times a month if it's a good month. It didn't used to be like this. It's not that I am not sexual. I masturbate almost daily. When we do have sex, I climax very quickly (within 2 minutes at the most) and then it is very painful and I have to stop for about ten minutes. I find it very frustrating to go through the trouble of having sex for two minutes of pleasure and the pain and sensitivity that follows. Is there anything I can do?

If this was only about sexual mechanics, then the answer to your question would be very simple, use a lubricant. I’m going to assume since you climax so quickly that right afterwards your natural lubrication ceases and that’s what makes sex painful. But if your boyfriend would pull out of you at that point and add some lubricant to his penis, that would probably solve the problem of the pain. But this answer is so obvious that I wonder whether something else is going on, especially since you are masturbating every day. That you use the word “trouble” about having sex, and seem to prefer masturbation, which isn’t giving you any “trouble” makes me think there’s an underlying relationship problem that is behind all of this. I don’t have enough information to give you a definitive answer, but my suggestion to you is to think about the big picture, your overall relationship, rather than just your sex life and see if that doesn’t help you figure out what is going on here.