It seems to me that my husband does not like to give me oral sex. I never liked to give it to him before either, but now I like it. Is there anyway that maybe he will come to like to give it to me? Is their something I can do to encourage it? I am a little afraid of getting it, since we have never been with anyone sexually but each other I have never gotten it done to me. I am at a point in my life now that I really want to have this experience. What should I do? I don’t want him to do it to me if he hates it. HELP me Please.

We have to do something about that word “seems” in your first sentence. This word indicates that you have never had a discussion with your husband on this subject.  I know it can be difficult to talk about these things for some people, but if you have a desire sometimes there is no other way to get your message across. Now you should not do this while you are engaged in sex. It would be best if you brought up the subject at some quiet moment. Maybe while taking a walk in the countryside or going for a drive. Do it casually and see how he reacts. One objection that some men have concerns cleanliness. They have this fear that it is dirty “down there.” One possible way to handle this is to take a bath or shower together. If a man has the opportunity to clean the area himself, it may remove this stigma. But maybe your husband doesn’t have any such concerns and will be quite willing to try oral sex once he knows you would like to, so take whatever steps are necessary to get your message across.