He claims I'm too loose. I haven't been through childbirth and no other man has told me this before. We are both worried that we won't be able to have children together the natural way. We have decided that we’re not sexually compatible and are trying to figure out what to do. We both love each other and have become each other’s best friends but this is putting a big cloud over our relationship. We might break up over this and it’s a shame Please help

You say you haven’t had this problem before, but has he? Or would he admit it? I suspect the problem is his and has nothing to do with the condition of your vagina. I can’t be sure of that, and if it would put your mind to rest, go to see a gynecologist who could let you know whether or not your vagina was any different in any way. Assuming you get a good report, then the two of you would need to figure out what his problem was. You might need to see a sex therapist. If the relationship is worth saving, then the two of you need to make an attempt to solve this problem, with professional help if need be. It’s hard finding a partner and if the problem can be solved, then you owe it to yourselves to give it your best shot