My boyfriend and I have been together for about 4 months.  We took it slow at first.  He is very into pleasing me, but seems to almost resist sex. 

We finally attempted, however he was unable to keep his erection to penetrate me.  I am able to get him off orally.  Is he not into me?  What can I do to help him?

First of all, this has nothing to do with his attraction for you. I wish they’d never invented the phrase “not being into” somebody because now people are looking for evidence of it where it doesn’t exist. My guess is that when he is very nervous, he has problems maintaining his erection. That is a common occurrence, especially among inexperienced men. And the more it happens, the more worried he becomes and the harder it is for him to maintain his erection. So it’s really all a case of nerves. Your job is to calm him down, let him know it’s all right, and most importantly not to pressure him. If you were to tell him something like “Prove to me that you’re into me by keeping your erection,”that would only guarantee that he couldn’t. So keep the pressure as low as possible and I’m sure he’ll be able to overcome this.