Can I Trust Him Again?

ImageRecently we separated because he said that I drove him away and he did not love me anymore.  While we were separated he hung out with this one girl a lot but with multiple friends so he says.  One day I found her sleeping in the same room as him but he says that they were not sleeping in the bed together and nothing happened.

After that day I asked him not to talk to her anymore and he said he would not but he continued to. We are back together now and she is out of the picture. I feel as though something did happen and that it is happening again or going to happen in the near future with a new girl.  I have to pretty much beg him for sex now. He does not touch me or do anything to show affection unless he is horny. I have talked to him about it but he gets mad and says that I am just trying to argue. He doesn't help around the house or with the kids anymore. All he does is go to work come home and play video games or sleep. I feel used and unloved. What do I do?

ImageThe two of you need to see a marriage counselor. There’s no doubt that there are relationship issues between the two of you. The sexual aspects are only a symptom of those issues. Since there are children involved, you owe it to them to try to save this marriage. I’m not saying that it can be saved, but you need to give it your best shot, and the only way that you can do that is by seeing a professional counselor. Since he did come back, he does have an interest in saving this marriage too. It’s not a hopeless situation. But the two of you alone are not going to succeed. You need a referee. A counselor or therapist will talk to each of you alone, hear each one’s side of the story, and then, perhaps, can offer useful advice and get you on the right track. If you continue to live as strangers under the same roof, the marriage won’t last.

 
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