My boyfriend of 6 years never ejaculates inside of me. He always wants me to do it orally. Yes I can get pregnant, but if he loves me wouldn't he want to see my face when he reaches his orgasm? Am I overreacting to feel as if we are only having sex rather than making love because of this? Help! I love him and we plan on getting married in a few years, I am feeling that we are not having a normal sex life like other couples. Please help, I'm 37.

When you say “I can get pregnant,” does that mean that you’re not using any form of birth control? If that’s the case, then I don’t blame him for not wanting to ejaculate inside of you. Of course you could still become pregnant because there can be some sperm that leaks from an erect male penis before he ejaculates, in the Cowper’s fluid, which is a lubricant that leaks from the penis before a man ejaculates. So if you’re not trying to cause a pregnancy, why not discuss with him how to engage in protected sex. Then you can talk to him about ejaculating during intercourse.