I was living with a guy for 10 years before this and he seemed to enjoy my cumming so much!! I guess my actually question is " is this normal" or should I feel like a freak...he at first made a comment "did you pee" and of course it makes me second guess myself. Why would some men love it and others not? I don't know if the problem is that he is such a neat freak? Then I feel bad I soiled his sheets. I have masturbated to see if I could bring myself to that climax right after I went to the bathroom just to make sure I was not peeing. I also did just a tad bit of research which was visiting a porn site and seen that it does happen. Which did make me feel better because I knew I wasn't alone. I just have no one to talk to about this and I am not that open with my girl friends. Thank you for any help or advice



I’m not the best person to ask your questions of because I’m still not entirely convinced. I’ve asked dozens of gynecologists and there is no scientific research to back up the female ejaculation. And yet, people do write to me that they experience it, so it may exist, though it is not universal. It doesn’t make you a “freak” if you do experience these, but I don’t believe you’re in the majority either.

As far as using porn films as a reality check, please don’t. Movies are works of fiction and not to be trusted for real information. And I doubt there is one porn movie that has captured a real female orgasm of any sort, no less an ejaculating one.

And finally, as far as the “mess,” instead of cleaning up the sheets afterwards with a towel, why not put a towel underneath you to begin with. The towel can easily be put in the wash and then he won’t be so upset.