Can We Save This Sex-less Relationship?
ImageI have been with my boyfriend for two years and our sex lives is very minimal.
He has had over 50 sexual partners, 6 real relationships and I have been married for 17 years to one man, he is my second lover.
The problem is that I would like to have sex on a regular basis. I know sex is not love, but it is a way of connecting with the one you love. He on the other hand doesn't want to. I am to never initiate it. Sometimes we won't have sex for a week and I get antsy so I do initiate it and it always causes a fight.
I sometimes will ask for a real kiss (french kiss) and he will tell me no, he doesn't feel like it.
I love him, but I don't think he will ever change. Is there a problem on my part or his. I am willing to work on this longer.

Image Sometimes I can give advice as a trained professional and other times all I can offer is my personal opinion, and thatís all I can do here. I, personally, would leave this man immediately. I assume that he tries to control you in many more ways than just sexually, and I wouldnít put up with that. On the other hand, you have been together for two years so you are attracted to him. He must offer you something else besides good sex, which he does not offer. Since I donít know what that is, or if the trade is worth it, I canít really tell you what to do. I will offer this advice: If you think that maybe there are more problems to this relationship but you are not able to face them, then go to see a therapist. Tell the therapist exactly what is going on and see what advice you get.

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