Is My Vasectomy Affecting My Performance?
Image I had an Vasectomy two years ago and was told that the procedure would not affect my performance. My problem is I’m not able to last very long during sexual intercourse.

I have no problem with an erection but I climax too quickly, my partner is very frustrated needless to say. I haven’t experienced anything like this prior or even after the procedure. Just lately it seem very difficult to control when I’m ready to ejaculate. Any advice would really be appreciated.

ImageLet me start by saying that you are in a better situation than many men who have problems with premature ejaculation (PE). Most men with PE have always had this problem. The solution is to learn to recognize the premonitory sensation or the moment of inevitability, that is to say the moment when it is impossible to stop the orgasm and ensuing ejaculation. Just before the man reaches that stage, he must pull back so as not to lose control. Now since you never had this problem before, I have to assume that you once knew what to do. At some point, with this new woman, you got too excited or nervous and weren’t able to stop yourself from ejaculating. The next time you had sex, you worried that it would happen again, and guess what, those worries made you lose control. So now you find yourself in this predicament.

What you must now do is to calm down and focus on identifying that moment and not allow yourself to cross it. You have the skills, so now you just need to develop the faith in your skills and just relearn what to do. I feel confident that now that you understand the problem, you will be able to solve it. If you can’t, then go to see a sex therapist, but my guess is that you won’t be suffering from PE for much longer.

 
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