I am willing to have sex with my boyfriend whenever he wants it, but two minutes after I leave for work he masturbates. I do not understand why he masturbates so much when I am willing to have sex whenever he wants it. He says he has no complaints about our sex life. He also cannot have sex more than one time in a 12 hour period, but he can masturbate 5 times a day. He is only 24. Does he have issues or do I. What can I do about this? I am really uncomfortable with it.

One thing I say over and over again is that we are not Siamese twins. You can't have sex more than once in 12 hours and he can masturbate 5 times a day. There's nothing right or wrong with either of you; that's just the way you are. So if you're out of the house and he wants to masturbate and it doesn't affect how often the two of you have sex, don't worry about it. Now if you regularly want to have sex and he turns you down because he's been masturbating, that would be a problem. But if that's not what has been happening, then you needn't be concerned.