She can't orgasm
She can't orgasm Q. My husband and myself have been having sex for the past one year. During this time I never experienced an orgasm.I want him to enjoy sex for which I take the initiative in doing things which he like for eg: oral sex. But he never has asked me what I like or whether I like what he is doing and not ever performed oral sex or even fingered my genital area. I think maybe since he is a cleanliness freak and I think he doesn't want to touch me at my genital area with any other body part other than his organ. He washes off his hand immediately if he happens to touch my white discharge by chance. But I don't know this for sure I just think like this because he never does it. Our sex usually lasts 5 mins, to the max 10 mins. Earlier he used to fondle before sex which I liked and didn't matter to me much if I never experienced orgasm. But later he do it only if when he feels excited and is already aroused. He fondle me for about a min or so and immediately penetrates me. and after he finishes he t alks for sometime and goes to sleep. He watches porn movies often and masturbates often. which make me feel that may be I am not satisfying him.Lately when i take initiative and do something he usually laughs off telling it is tickling him.i have talked to him about me not feeling anything. He says that it is because I dont have any feelings . he advised me to watch porn movies which I denied as I am not comfortable with that.he says only then I will develop some feelings. When asked whether he has any feelings that I am not feeling anything he replied that it is not his problem and he cannot do anything for that and he is ready to live with me even though i am like this. please advise what should i do to ? is this happening because as he says really I am lacking of sexual desire? i want to experience orgasm and most importantly I want to be happy with him while having sex. please advise A. Your husband needs to be educated about sex. His refusal to do anything to help you have an orgasm demonstrates his ignorance. You need clitoral stimulation in order to have an orgasm and like a majority of women, intercourse does not provide you with sufficient stimulation, especially since intercourse only lasts for five minutes. I suggest you get a book about sex, such as the one I wrote, Sex For Dummies. First you read it and then ask him to read it. Even if he refuses, if you leave it around my guess is that he will. Then hopefully you two can talk about what he needs to do. If he loves you, hopefully he will overcome his squeamishness and be willing to at least use his fingers. Try that and see what happens. By the way, you mention that you have a discharge. A woman's vagina should not have discharge, at least not all the time, so I would advise you to see a gynecologist. Perhaps if you could get rid of this discharge he wouldn't feel so badly about touching you.
 
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