Do you realize that in just about every state in the nation, a 16 year old having sex with a 22 year old is illegal? Now some of these laws are ridiculous, like when it’s legal for a 17-year old boyfriend to have sex with his 16-yer old girlfriend, but when he turns 18, it’s no longer legal. But while a part of these laws are based on nonsense, there’s also a part that based on common sense. A 16-year old young woman is not fully developed when it comes to having sex. Most young women your age who are having sex are not fully enjoying the experience. Actually that you can have orgasms while on top puts you ahead of the game, and you needn’t worry about it because I’d bet that as time goes by and you mature a little, you’ll find other ways to have orgasms (though you should know that most women cannot have an orgasm from intercourse alone in the missionary position.) But to me, and I admit to being old fashioned, your questions shows why a 16-year old shouldn’t be in such a serious relationship with a 22-year old. It’s not the six years of age separation that is the main problem as the fact that you’re still a bit young to be in such a serious relationship. You should be focusing on other matters as you’re still learning about a lot of things in school and in life, and so should not be so focused on your sex life with your fiancé.

Now I know you’re not going to break up with him or stop having sex with him because of what I say. But if you’ll take any advice from me, I would hope it would be to take a deep breath and slow down. Don’t rush into leading a fully adult life. It will come soon enough but for now try to enjoy being 16.