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I am 16 and I am having a hard time getting aroused at all |
 Hi, I’m a teenager (16 yrs old) and I’m having a problem getting aroused and having a good orgasm. It’s hard for me to even get horny. I don’t understand. So far I have been like this for a week, but normally I’m always very horny. It confuses me because I’m a teenager and usually teens are horny like I used to be. I have GAD (general anxiety disorder) but its never effected my sex drive until now. Please help me.
 If you have general anxiety disorder, then that means you worry about minor things excessively. And if there’s one thing we know is that worrying about sex will play havoc with having sex. You have to be fairly worry free in order to fully enjoy sex. So it seems that you have focused your worries on your sexuality and that is what is causing the problem.
I don’t know enough about your condition to say how to overcome this. Normally I would tell you to get some erotic literature, focus on that, pushing aside your worries, and see what happens. But perhaps with GAD that is not possible for you to do. And since I don’t know the answer, my advice is to ask the doctor who diagnosed you and is treating you.
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