I can only have an orgasm from a vibrator or shower hose
Image I have never had an orgasm through vaginal intercourse, but whatís REALLY troubling me is that I can't even climax through stimulation of the clitoris when I masturbate by hand (though Iíve tried many times). the only method that works is if I use a vibrator or a shower hose. I've been using pretty strong vibrators for years and Iím worried that Iíve de-sensitized my clitoris by masturbating too much! Is that possible? What can I do to have a normal, natural, manually-induced orgasm?

Image There are two possible answers to your situation. The first is that you did use the strong sensations of a vibrator too much so that you now require them to have an orgasm. The other is that you are one of those women who are born with no other option than to apply strong sensations to their clitoris in order to trigger the orgasmic response.

Letís deal with the second one first. If thatís the case, itís not the end of the world. At least you can have orgasms so that you donít have to be sexually frustrated for the rest of your life. And hopefully you can teach your partner how to use the vibrator on you so that he can give you orgasms, so that he wonít feel too left out. I understand that itís not the ideal, but itís better to need a vibrator than to not be able to have orgasms at all.

The more likely scenario is that because youíve been using vibrators for a long time that youíve taught yourself to require those strong sensations in order to have an orgasm. It may be possible to wean yourself of this need. Start by using the vibrator to make yourself very aroused, and then try to finish off using just your fingers. Hopefully, little by little, youíll be able to reduce the need for the vibratorís strong sensations and one day may not need them at all. Whatever you do, donít put a timetable on yourself. The more pressure you put on yourself, the harder itís going to be to accomplish. If it takes a year, then it takes a year. Of course you may not be able to succeed, and then youíre in the situation described above, which as I said, is not the worst thing in the world.

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