I want your question to be an example to all those women out there who have less than perfect bodies, who may be a little overweight or whatever, and who think that the reason their husband/partner doesn’t have sex with them is because of their looks. Here is a woman who has maintained her model figure and who is thinking that it is because of the size of her breasts that her husband isn’t attracted to her.

Obviously your looks have nothing to do with this situation. Something has changed within him, and I cannot know what it is without speaking to him in private, but this is not related to the size of your breasts at all. In fact this is not related to your body at all. Perhaps something soured in the relationship. Perhaps he is being put down severely at work in some way so that he has developed very low self-esteem. Perhaps he is having an affair. Perhaps he’s discovered he’s really gay. Perhaps he has some sort of physical ailment. Or maybe he’s depressed. The list could go on, but the point is that your lack of sex life has absolutely nothing to do with your body. And most of the time, when women write in to say that they’ve gained a few pounds and that’s why their husband no longer wants to have sex with them, the same thing is true. I’m not going to lie and pretend that after a certain number of years a man might not be thinking of some movie starlet while he’s making love to his wife, but under normal circumstances, he’s not going to stop making love to her just because her body has changed a bit. And in your case, your body hasn’t changed at all. So some external factor is at work here. My advice is not to let this slide but instead to work together to get to the bottom of it. Maybe it can be fixed, and maybe it can’t and the relationship needs to end. But stop blaming your body and start looking for the real cause.