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I'm worried that I'm a lesbian |
 I'm 21 years old my problem is I think I'm a Lesbian and it freaks me out. I never dated any boys before simply 'cause I wasn't attracted to them but I thought that was because I found them not interesting and I'm gonna meet the right guy some day. Then last year I met a woman who is much older than me. I don’t know what happened but I just clicked with her. She is not a Lesbian but I just started having sexual fantasies about her. I just kept fighting these thoughts hoping they'll just go but they didn't. Actually it just got worse as I started to have sexual fantasies about other women. Not every woman I meet but some of them and it's driving me crazy. I don't think of boys romantically any more. Does that mean I'm a Lesbian.
 If you can only become sexually aroused fantasizing about other women, then there’s a good chance that you are a lesbian. There are counselors who specialize in helping people find their sexual identity. I would suggest that you make an appointment to further explore this concern of yours. If you are a lesbian, the sooner you are sure of that fact and begin to come to terms with it the better. If you fight it, you’ll only be fighting the inevitable and that would just be a waste of time.
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