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I had an affair and the sex was better than with my husband |
I had an affair with a man for a year and a half after my husband accused me of it and at the time I wasn't. The problem is that the other man was great in bed. The sex was great. I had multiple orgasms with him. I had more orgasms with him in a year and a half than the 9 years I've been married to my husband. I want to be sexually satisfied by my husband but it just isn't happening. The affair wasn't really about sex. It was how he made me feel as a women. What do you recommend? Thanks
I suspect that the problem isn’t your husband’s skill level versus this other man, but your relationship. Obviously if he was accusing you of having an affair, there was a reason since you did later have an affair. I doubt you two were acting like love birds or you’d never have cheated on him. So if you want to improve your sex life, first do whatever needs to be done to fix your relationship, which might mean going for therapy.
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