Been with my boyfriend for 8 years but we have never had sex
Image I've been with my boyfriend for 8 yrs. We have NEVER had sex. He has always come up with a new excuse over the years. He says he loves me. I know he is a very pessimistic person, and sometimes I wonder if that is why. He says it's not worth the effort. He doesn't even masturbate anymore. His doctor tested his testosterone level and it came out very low. However the doctor did not do anything about it. What should I do? I love him, but I want some intimacy in my life. He's 51 & I'm 40.

Image So it seems he actually has a physical reason for his lack of sex drive, a low testosterone level. What you must do is get him back to a doctor, either the one he saw or another, and see if there is anything that can be done about this. Since he has a low level of male sex hormones he doesnít care that much about sex and undoubtedly heíll never push himself to get over this problem. So if you want some more intimacy, donít write to me about it, or complain to anyone, but instead do something, since there is a clear path to follow. Now perhaps thereís nothing that can be done but thatís not what youíve been told, so drag him by the scruff of the neck and get the answer. Hopefully he can be given testosterone and that will kick start his sex drive. If thatís not possible, then you have two choices: stay with him in a sexless relationship or move on. But youíre not at the stage yet so get going, today!

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