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My boyfriend and I haven't had sex in 6 months |
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My boyfriend & I haven't had sex in almost 6 months. We've had our trust issues in the past, but I thought we were getting through them. He barely touches me & prefers to play video games to escape having to talk to me. When I bring up the subject of no sex, he simply says it's his problem & he's dealing with it, blah, blah, blah. I'm back to square one where I feel like he's being unfaithful (he keeps his phone with him at ALL times on vibrate & his computer now has a password so I can't log on). I've caught him looking at porn in the past & it's upset me as he can look at that, but won't even touch me. I don't know what to do...it's gotten to the point where I'm a little turned off by him & now I don't even try to initiate any kind of affection. We live together & I feel like we're just going through the motions because we're both so comfortable. I don't know what to do or how to feel. Help me understand what is going on & what I should do.
To me it looks like this romantic relationship is over and you’re more like roommates than lovers. If that’s the case, you should leave and find someone new. You could try going for couples therapy if you think there’s enough there to salvage, but life is short and staying in a relationship that is heading nowhere is a mistake, at least to my way of thinking.
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