More often than not, the idea of a threesome where the third person is a woman is the guy’s idea, but since he’s making up excuses not to go forward with this, maybe that’s because deep down he understands the dangers of doing this and so doesn’t really want to. And I wouldn’t blame him if that were true because threesomes are dangerous to any relationship. But let me ask you, why are you so eager to do this? Could it be because you actually might prefer to make love to women, but are afraid to admit that to the world and yourself and so want to do this under the cover that this would be a heterosexual act?

Threesomes are cheating, even if both partners are cheating at the same time. If you so badly want to make love to a woman, maybe you two should separate and you should try out the lifestyle of a lesbian. If you discover that it’s what you really want, then you should pursue it. If not, then maybe the two of you can reconcile. But if a threesome is just a wishy-washy way for you to see if you really prefer to have sex with women, then I would advise skipping it.