The sex has stopped after 6 years of being together
Image My fiancť and I have been together for 6 yrs now and in the beginning the sex was great! We had foreplay, romance etc.. but now it seems like itís a chore to have sex. The foreplay & romance has STOPPED!! He is a wonderful man but he really isn't romantic at all. I initiated most of the romantic things. I was wondering if you could suggest a video or book that he can look at to help him with "what a woman wants". I donít want to just have sex...I want him to make love to me!! We have done the porn thing and the toys but to me thatís just SEX not making love to a woman. where is the intimacy? I have suggested to him about body massages but get no response. I just donít want to have sex anymore because I am not getting what I want and need. Any suggestions?

Image Consider that you may be biting off your nose to spite your face by refusing to take the initiative. Maybe the two of you canít have romance without you taking the initiative. I understand that it would be much better if he did it, but at this point if you donít even want to have sex with him, then I canít see this relationship lasting. So if you really think heís worth it, and only you can decide that, then take the bull by the horns and make dinner reservations, go to places where romance is in the air, tell him to give you a body massage when you want it, perhaps making sure that you leave an evening open for that. You can light the candles etc. Perhaps, and Iím not saying it definitely will happen, but perhaps heíll learn from taking part and will some day initiate some of this on his own, especially if he benefits from a better sex life. Or else you may decide that if he really canít ever initiate romance youíre moving on. But at least try to create that romance you crave on your own and see what happens.

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