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Bra: To wear or not to wear? |
 I am a 30 (almost 31) married mother of a 9-year old daughter and a 4-year old son. My husband and I married right out of high school. Sometimes, my husband's attention can be a little overwhelming. He tells me that he is lucky that I have Pam Anderson boobs and a Jennifer Lopez butt. My problem is that except when I am at work at my part-time job, my husband asks me not to wear a bra. We are talking about nights, weekends, vacations, at home, and in public.
I love my husband. I adore him and nothing gets him hotter than the way I bounce slightly in a fairly low cut dress. In addition to intercourse, he loves to cum by rubbing himself on my chest.
I have been concerned that the lack of support will cause my breasts to sag. Fortunately, I've seen no evidence of that as nature has been kind and I am very perky. Still, I am going to have a hard time explaining to my daughter in a short while why she should wear a bra when mom does not. Also, I will get an occasional dirty look from a woman at the grocery store or have the popcorn boy at the movies staring at me. What is my husband's turn on with this? What category does this fall into?
 It falls into the category of a man who likes his wife’s breasts. If you’re willing to endure the stares in order to satisfy him, then there’s nothing wrong with that. I do understand the problem with your daughter, but I would guess that what is going to happen is the reverse of what you expect. When she develops breasts, and all her friends do too and they start wearing bras, she’s going to want to wear bras as well. And then she’s going to tell you that you should be wearing bras! As your son gets older, and his friends start noticing your breasts, that’s going to be a bigger problem, in my opinion.
On the one hand going braless shouldn’t be that big a deal, but in our society it does have consequences and will draw stares. I think you should talk about this with your husband and see how willing he’d be to some compromises. He may agree that you should start wearing bras more often because of the children and then that will be the end of your concern.
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