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My Orgasms Are So Strong That My Neck Cramps |
 My husband and I have excellent chemistry. Our sex life keeps getting better after 6 1/2 years of being together. I reach climax every time he gives me oral sex, but the orgasm is so strong that my neck often feels tense and strained afterward (even into the next day) from my nearly uncontrollable writhing and convulsing. It isn't a whiplash-type motion, it's like all of the muscles in the sides of my neck tense up.
Of course, I love having long orgasms and I don't think the answer is for him to stop stimulating me sooner to make the orgasm shorter (or less intense). It helps when I can verbalize my pleasure, but we have children so that isn't always possible. Do you have any suggestions for relaxation techniques I can practice during orgasm to take the strain off of my neck?
 I’m not a physical therapist so I can’t really give you relaxation techniques, but common sense tells me that you should try either ice or heat, or maybe both, ice first and heat after, right after you have sex. Try that, see if it works and let me know. If anyone else reading this has any ideas, please pass them on.
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