Are drugs affecting his sex drive?
ImageI’ve been with a man I love for 5 years. We used to have a great sex life, but it's been almost 2 years that he’s been totally not interested. He’s not doing anything about it because he says he’s embarrassed. I can’t even bring up the subject without him freaking out. Also, we are both drug addicted and have been for the whole time we’ve been together so our lives are complicated as you can imagine. Could this be part of his problem? He insists he loves me, but what should I do? The rejection is hard on me.

ImageI’m not a medical doctor and know nothing about drug addiction, nor do you say which drug you are addicted to, but I would imagine that the drugs are affecting his ability to have an erection, and that’s why he’s embarrassed. Obviously the best thing for both of you would be to get clean, but I can’t really help you there. Here’s what I would suggest: Do a lot of naked cuddling together. Tell him in advance that you’re not going to have sex, but that you miss the closeness of having your naked bodies together. Maybe, without the pressure of having sex, he’ll get physically excited by this. If he does, he may then initiate sex. Or else it may give him the confidence to do it later on. In any case, you’ll feel a bit better, and then you can masturbate then or at some later time.


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