I’m assuming that he’s not a candidate for Viagra, Levitra or Cialis for health reasons. (Of course if he’s never gone to a doctor about this, he should go as soon as possible.) But if he can’t take one of the pills, there is another alternative, which is a penile implant. They have made great advances in these devices, they can be implanted in a urologist’s office, and from that time on, all he has to do is press a pump that will fill his penis with liquid in order to have an erection.

But whatever the state of his penis, erect or flaccid, there’s no reason he can’t give you an orgasm with his fingers, orally or with a vibrator. So rather than shut down your feelings, you need to get him to help you out. And it’s also possible that while giving you an orgasm, he might find himself so aroused that it will help his problem as well.