Where has the passion gone?
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My husband and I have been married for 15 years. Our marriage and our sex life are dwindling. After numerous attempts to light the fire, I have felt rejected over and over.

This has led me to wonder if he is having an affair etc.  I began to investigate to determine what was going on.  I found that although he wasn't involved with another woman, he would visit male entertainment establishments and then masturbate on his own.  Although he is no longer doing this, we've been through so many stages of this sort of thing.  Over the years I've become turned off and not attracted to him.  The truth is that we work together as a good partnership in so many other ways.  However, the passion seems to have gone.  We have two sons with special needs and this too takes a lot of energy.  How can we rekindle the fire after all we've been through?  I feel as if my passion has left me and I haven't much to look forward to other then my children growing up.

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Have you ever thought that he didn’t want to have sex with you because he didn’t want to risk the possibility of having another special needs child? Such feelings could occur subconsciously so that he wasn’t even aware of why he was avoiding having sex with you. I bring this up because your situation is complicated. There could be many reasons why he prefers to masturbate than have sex with you, and I mention this one only because you may not have thought of it, but there are several others that are just as likely. So without interviewing both of you in my office, I can’t really help you. If you’re serious about wanting to fix this problem, then you two have to go for some marriage counseling.


 

 
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