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Why can't my husband ejaculate? |
I was reading one of your questions about an elderly man that couldn’t ejaculate. My husband to be has that problem, but he’s only 35 years old.
He says it gets right there and then it goes away. Every now and then he ejaculates a tiny bit, but not a strong shoot. We have a good relationship and a precious 2 and 3-year-old boy and girl. And he’s got other kids with his ex wife. He claims he has only had this problem for about 4 years, which is the amount of time that we have been together. We have been dealing with this our whole time together. He doesn’t want to see a doctor, although I try hard to make him go. Is there anything, besides seeing a doctor, that he can do to correct this problem? It’s really taking a toll on both of us - me, because I feel he isn’t interested in me sexually like he should be although he says its not me and he loves me with all his heart. And it frustrates him because he wants to have that strong shooting ejaculation that he hasn’t felt in years. Dr Ruth, please help.
You have to work on him to go to see a doctor because this may not be just a sexual problem, but a physical one. Maybe he realizes that as well and is scared, but if there is any hope for a medical cure, the longer he waits, the less likely that he can be helped. It could be a psychological problem, but from what you describe, it seems to be more physical in nature, and so you have to do whatever it takes to get him to see a urologist. Explain to him that urologists treat these kinds of problems all day long and so it will be less embarrassing. But he shouldn’t allow a little embarrassment to put his life at risk.
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