How do I get them to move out and save my sex life?
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What are the chances of me and my girlfriend’s relationship lasting? I am 37 and she is 52. We’ve been together for almost 12 years. We have been though a lot in the past 18 months. Our relationship seems to be deteriorating. Her daughter, her daughter's husband and 18-month-old baby live with us.
I am constantly stressed out because I have no peace and quiet. We have no privacy anymore. They say they are moving out, but they have no money and pay no rent or bills. I complain about the situation and it's always a fight. My girl says to mind my business and that she can’t do anything about it. I love them all, but they are old enough to be on their own. Am I out of line to want our sex and privacy back? I would do anything for my girl, but she blows me off or gets mad every time.

Image  I recognize that this situation is upsetting and I’m sure that your girlfriend isn’t happy about losing her privacy either. But she’s also not going to put her daughter and grandchild out into the street. So the reality is, that until they act, the situation isn’t likely to change. When you complain, you are only adding to her stress, so of course she then gets mad at you.

 The question you asked, is the relationship going to last, is entirely up to you. You have several choices. The first is to decide that you love her enough that you’re going to stick it out until they leave. If that’s your decision, then you just have to make the best of it and stop complaining. Or you could end the relationship. Or you could move out, get your own place, so that you’d have all the privacy and peace and quiet you want when she visited you. Or maybe you could find a small apartment nearby, just a studio, where the two of you could escape now and then, or just make a point of going to a motel once a week.

 In other words, find a practical solution, which hopefully wouldn’t turn into a permanent one, though I suppose there is a risk of that. But at least your contribution would be positive rather than just complaining.

 
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