I have known this girl for three years now and she has helped me through some hard times in my life. I think that I am in falling in love with her. She is a very openly sexual being, and I haven't been in my life due to the lack of size of my penis.
I have kissed her, but never had sex with her thinking she would
only be disappointed and think less of me because I am not as big as other
guys. She is a very important person in
my life and I don't want to lose her by making her unsatisfied in any way. What should I do?
Stop blaming your penis is what you should do. First of all, I
doubt that your penis is so small that it is going to be a problem. Yes, there
are women who prefer a man with a bigger penis, but if that’s their main
criteria in choosing their partners, then if I were you, I wouldn’t want to
date someone like that, just as I don’t think a woman, with any size chest,
would want to date a man who required his partner to have large breasts. The physical
makeup of people should take second place to other aspects like personality,
intelligence, sense of humor, etc. So
what I think is happening in your case is that in order not to risk getting
your heart broken, by this woman or any woman, you tell yourself that you won’t
pursue a relationship because of the size of your penis, when that’s not the
real cause at all. My advice to you is to put aside all thoughts about the size
of your penis, and if you would like a relationship with this woman, then do all
you can to try to make it a stronger and more romantic one. I can’t guarantee
your success, but whatever the odds, they’re a lot better than zero, which are
the odds of success if you don’t even try.
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