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Why do I fantatsize like this? |
My husband and I have been together about three years. I love him and I know that I am straight. I would never want to be in a relationship with a woman. The problem is when we have sex, I have to think about women in order to have an orgasm.
I never think about other men when we have sex, but I do think about my husband having sex with other women. It is weird. Why do I think like that? I would never want to see him with another woman. I have never told him about this. Should I? Is it wrong to fantasize like that? Is fantasizing normal? Is it emotional cheating? Advice please. It's been bugging me. Thanks
 If your fantasies only involve your husband having sex with another woman, rather than you having sex with another woman, then I would say not to worry about it and not to tell him. For some reason you find this very erotic and if that’s what works for you, fine. On the other hand, if you often think about having sex with women, so that as you say you need to think about having sex with a woman to become sufficiently aroused to have an orgasm, then you might want to see a therapist who specializes in gender identity issues. I’m not saying that would mean you were a lesbian. The therapist would go into more details, however, and could then make a proper analysis.
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