Will I ever have good sex with him again?
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I've seen you on television and I was really impressed of your person. Today, I'm helpless because my husband has had an affair for nearly one and a half years and a lot of things have happened, which have hurt me deeply.

Now he has decided to end the relationship with this other woman and he wants to stay by me and continue our marriage. My problem now is that every time we have sex, I get very sad and sometimes I cry quietly. I think that he has done the same with the other woman. Sex had been for me, something exclusive between him and me before.

In the moment, I cannot speak about this with my husband because he gets nervous when I want to speak about the adultery. My question now is if my reaction is normal and do I have a real chance to have good sex with him, and how long I have to wait? 

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Your reaction is very normal and he is lucky that you are willing to stay with him and to have sex with him. Sadly, because he broke his vows once, you are always going to wonder whether he is being faithful. But if you really want to stay together, then as time goes by, the pain will lessen, even if it never disappears entirely. I can’t tell you how long it will take because it depends on the individual.


  It would certainly help matters if he would talk about it with you, and promise you over and over that he won’t ever do this again. If you can’t afford professional counseling, maybe you have a religious leader who could talk to you. You’re bearing a lot of weight because of this, and I think it would help you if you could talk to somebody who is experienced in counseling.

 


 
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