Why isn't my fiance attracted to me?
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I am engaged and have been with this man for almost four years. I think that he loves me, but doesn't find me sexually attractive.
I can walk around naked around him and even try to initiate sex, but all he does is push me away and says I am gross. He tells me he isn't in the mood. He always has an excuse. When it comes to other women, he is always flirting and staring. He watches porn all the time and lies to me and says he doesn't. I am tired of all this.  Many other men find me attractive. What really hurts is my fiance doesn't find me attractive and I feel depressed, ugly and even have gained 25 pounds because of this. I have to fight with him to make love to me. I can't do this anymore. What is wrong with him?

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I receive many, many questions such as yours describing situations where men seem to prefer to masturbate to porn than have sex with their partner.I think we, as a society, need to begin to address this problem as there is so much porn that is so easily available on the Internet that far too many men are getting caught up in this trap and it is having a serious negative effect on too many relationships. In your particular case, since he is insulting you as a result of all this, I would move on. I know it will be difficult and sad, but this situation will not get better if you marry, and so you’re better off facing the facts now before you’ve gone any further. And in subsequent relationships, you’re just going to have to talk to your partners and make sure that they are not in danger of getting caught in this same trap by porn. 

 


 
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